Raise your hand if you have ever done any of the following:
- Made a bad meal.
- Made a wrong turn while driving.
- Wore the wrong shoes.
- Mailed a letter with out posting a stamp on it.
- Called someone by the wrong name.
I'm sure you've done one of them...if not all, at some time or another in your life. We flub up, make mistakes, and do silly-mindless things all the time. We're human. End of story.
So why do we beat ourselves up when we make bad art?
Why do we doubt our skills, abilities, intentions to be creative, dreams to be an artist--just because we threw some paint together that looked more like road-kill then a gallery masterpiece?
We don't quit cooking breakfast just because we burnt the toast!
We don't go home crying that you'll never be able to drive again because you turned north on 75th avenue instead of south!
We don't write long-winded, soul-searching journal entries because we wore high heels to an all-day outside picnic near the beach!
We don't cry late at night that our dreams will never come true because we received a letter back in the mail asking for correct postage. Well, maybe sometimes this happens...but you get my point, right?!
Last, have you ever doubted your heart just because you called your neighbor Betty instead of Betsy?
Same thing happens with our creativity. We slip sometimes. We have off days, bad days, days we think we should be painting, when really we should be sitting in meditation under a mango tree. We have days that we force it. Days that we copy others and fail--when we thought it would be so easy. Days that we're feeling too ambitious. Days that we forgot to eat breakfast.
So my dear Lovelies, who are new and even seasoned veterans to this journey called Art....remember to be kind to yourself...loving to yourself...and to have a sense of humor every time you face another bad piece of art. In the big picture of the Creative Juicy Life...that bad painting you are crying about is just a burnt piece of toast...and like my mother would do-- just scrape off the black part, add a little butter, and deal with it!
Peace & Love.

12 comments:
Bravo on another incredible post, my dear! :)
This is great! Thank you :)
I'm raising my hand! Thanks for the reminder. Do you have a reminder for the Artist-wanna-be-homeschool-mom who is busy and can only fit in a few nice photos? LOL!
Hah - love this! Kind of a message in letting go of it all (as I'm sure several of your readers will join me in admitting, I tend to over-judge myself...wrong shoes, bad art, whatever!). I'm going to burn some toast and make some bad art. And giggle about it. Thank you.
Amen and a bag a chips cher!
Totally. I reveled yesterday in my bad art, and totally because it just needed 'out'. Thanks for being so verbal about it!
~Shamsi
Excellent point. Why do we beat ourselves up over creativity? Seems silly now.
Oh gosh Connie I so needed to read this today. I'm having a somewhat sad afternoon, not sure why -- but these words and these thoughts have pulled me right back up! Thanks!
Thanks for reminding us that the process is important - not the end result. If it works great but have fun!
BRAVO BRAVO... STANDING OVATION PLEASE.
Excellent thoughts and post. Thanks so much for sharing.
Bless you! I needed to read this.
Connie, I totally agree with you. When I started creating, buying supplies was torture: I should not be wasting money, what am I going to do with the pieces? But I stopped that voice and decided I deserve to create because it's good for me, because it feels great, and I don't care if my art simply accumulates in my house. Now I really just LoVe creating and work really hard at freeing up time for it. Since I have a job and all. Sorry kinda lengthy.
Thanks for your comment : )
Fantastic post Connie! And so true too. why do we judge ourselves and especially our art so harshly? This is a great reminder to not be too harsh on ourselves or our art..Now I think I shall go art journal some messy, mistake filled, but fun to do art..thanks..
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